The family dishwasher

Recently I read a tweet that stated something along the lines of 'In African households the children are the dishwashers' and it made me think about the family dynamics in African households, specifically sibling dynamics and birth order. Studies by psychologist Dr. Kevin Leman state that the birth order (i.e firstborn, secondborn) affect our personalities and …

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The Big Chop

For black women, whether our hair is relaxed, natural, braided, in weaves/sew ins or worn as wigs, there is always opinions on why that is the wrong choice to make, thus a lot of our worth (whether unconsciously or not) has been tied to our hair. Terms like 'nappy headed', 'good hair' and a lot more …

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